Dads baby steps

Born on Feb 1st 1974 into a Family of 5 women.  1 Mum and 4 sisters.  I grew up with no real example of fatherhood in my life. I looked around at people I knew, people I respected. I seemed to learn what I did not want to do when i became a father, more than what I should do.  I grew up to love the ocean and anything to do with it.   I am now 35, married to a beautiful woman, have an amazing son from my first marriage, and expecting another little man in 4 weeks time.

This is not really a self help blog, it is just a mosaic of thoughts that seem to infest my mind sometimes.

Note: I have chosen to adjust and not use some names and dates in my blog, our of sensitivity to my Beautiful Wife and family.  It will by no means take away from the underlaying truth of my experience, and what I am choosing to share. I hope you understand.